Heat the 2 tablespoons oil over medium heat in a large skillet, and saute veggies until golden, about 5-6 minutes.
Remove the veggies from the pan and set aside.
Remove excess oil with a paper towel.
Heat the 6 tablespoons oil in the same pan over medium heat.
Stir in the cumin, fenugreek and sesame seeds, and cook until the cumin turns golden,
about 2 minutes.
Reduce the heat.
Stir in the ginger and cook for a minute or so.
Stir in the onions and chili pepper.
Continue to cook and stir until the chopped onion is golden, about 10 minutes.
Add the garlic and stir to mix in ~ for a few seconds
I am a fan of finely minced garlic and very little 'cooking)
Stir the tomato paste, coriander, turmeric, chili powder, plus sea salt into the onions mixture.
Cook and stir over medium heat for 2 minutes.
"Fold" in the cooked, cubed veggies
Cover the pan and simmer until veggies are firm but tender, about 5- 10 minutes.
This will depend on your choice of vegetable. (Zucchini or Eggplant 5 minutes and others may take more time)
Pour in the coconut milk
Stir until the mixture is just blended and warm.
Toss in the cilantro leaves, if using (or your choice of green herbal goodness!)